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We
of Overeaters Anonymous have made a discovery. At the
very first meeting we attended, we learned that we were
in the clutches of a dangerous illness, and that willpower,
emotional health, and self-confidence, which some of
us had once possessed, were no defense against it.
We have found that the reasons for the illness are unimportant.
What deserves the attention of the still-suffering compulsive
overeater is this: THERE IS A PROVEN, WORKABLE METHOD
BY WHICH WE CAN ARREST OUR ILLNESS.
The OA recovery program is patterned after that of Alcoholics
Anonymous. We use AA's Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
changing only the words "alcohol" and "alcoholic"
to "food" and "compulsive overeater."
As our personal stories attest, the Twelve Step program
of recovery works as well for compulsive overeaters
as it does for alcoholics.
Can we guarantee you this recovery? The answer is simple
. If you will honestly face the truth about yourself
and the illness; if you will keep coming back to meetings
to talk and listen to other recovering compulsive overeaters;
if you will read our literature and that of Alcoholics
Anonymous with an open mind; and most important, if
you are willing to rely on a power greater than yourself
for direction in your life, and to take the Twelve Steps
to the best of your ability, we believe you can indeed
join the ranks of those who recover.
To remedy the emotional, physical and spiritual illness
of compulsive overeating we offer several suggestions,
but keep in mind that the basis of the program is spiritual,
as evidenced by the Twelve Steps.
We are not a "diet and calories" club. We
do not endorse any particular plan of eating. Once we
become abstinent, the preoccupation with food diminishes
and in many cases leaves us entirely. We then find that,
to deal with our inner turmoil, we have to have a new
way of thinking, of acting on life rather than reacting
to it--in essence, a new way of living.
From this vantage point, we begin the Twelve Step program
of recovery, moving beyond the food and the emotional
havoc to a fuller living experience. As a result of
practicing the Steps, the symptom of compulsive overeating
is removed on a daily basis, achieved through the process
of surrendering to something greater than ourselves;
the more total our surrender, the more fully realized
our freedom from food obsession.
Here are the Steps as adapted for Overeaters Anonymous:
1. We admitted we were powerless over food - that our
lives had become unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves
could restore us to sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over
to the care of God as we understood Him.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of
ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human
being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these
defects of character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became
willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible,
except when to do so would injure them or others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory and, when we
were wrong, promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve
our conscious contact with God as we understood Him,
praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the
power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of
these steps, we tried to carry this message to compulsive
overeaters and to practice these principles in all our
affairs.
"But
I'm too weak. I'll never make it!" Don't worry,
we have all thought and said the same thing. The amazing
secret to the success of this program is just that:
weakness. It is weakness, not strength, that binds us
to each other and to a higher power and somehow gives
us the ability to do what we cannot do alone.
If you decide you are one of us, we welcome you with
open arms. Whatever your circumstances, we offer you
the gift of acceptance. You are not alone any more.
Welcome to Overeaters Anonymous.
Welcome Home!
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